Systemic Family Constellation Circle

Families have an unconscious mind and soul that travel across generations and entangle those who follow in the fates of those who came before us. All members of a family are deeply bonded to each other in love and loyalty. This bonding love may cause us to invite disease, suffering, depression, relationship struggles, and financial difficulties, into our lives in an unconscious attempt to restore balance to our family systems. The dynamics of this larger family system lie beyond our awareness, yet their effect on our lives is profound.

We are deeply bonded to family members we may not have even known — for example, a parent’s early deceased sibling or, our grandparents’ previous partners, or an earlier family member’s stillborn, aborted, or miscarried child. “Orders of Love” is the term first used by Bert Hellinger, a German psychotherapist and former priest. to name these powerful forces that guide and influence our lives.

The guiding forces in our lives include:

• Parents give & children take
• Everyone belongs in the family
• Relationships require a balance of give & take

Many families operate in ways that violate these natural laws because of deeply unconscious patterns, loyalty to family secrets, and tragic losses that make grieving difficult. There are universal truths that connect all of us, even while each family also has its own story that makes it unique. By restoring balance in our ancestral blueprints, personal suffering and unhappiness can be transformed into a force for healing.

The constellation process reveals the influence of generational histories in ways that our Western-trained minds find challenging to access. It promotes visibility and consciousness of our shared humanity, including our tendencies to be constricted by unhealed loss and trauma experienced by our ancestors.

For people interested in exploring their current personal challenge through the lens of systemic family constellation, please join the upcoming circle facilitated by Embodied Beings Founder and Family Constellation Amel murphy

Systemic Family Constellation Workshop Tickets, Thu 12 Sep 2024 at 01:00 | Eventbrite